it is bewildering to see how many fall outs are occuring just these few weeks. Using logical deduction, it appears now the problem lies with me. Whatever done and said just cannot please people. If all 9 people have problem with the sole one person, chances are the problem lies with that sole person rather than the other 9.
what is more saddening and hurtful is because of some other people whom you support and silently accomodate for their shortfalls, they are the reason or the contributing factor to fall outs with those cloests. What was For them now changes to Because of them, and the kick in the nuts? it all points back to you
You are the perpetrator. Because of their overly sensitive nature, everything from you is perceived as hostile.
When all the time you piggyback and shoulder their responsibility doing 150% work they perceived that their share of 50% is adequate. When you do 100% due to certain limitations and shit starts to fall apart, it is not them that is viewed as slacking - YOU are the one that slacked.
Just great. Nothing done is right, Shoulder other's burden in silent and always first to be blamed.
Can you get angry and confront about it? No. Their overly sensitive nature is going to cause an explosion which ripples to god knows where.
Accomodate and suffer for them for the greater good, and get blamed for them also for the lack of progress.
These are the sheep the dog has to protect.
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